Many mitzvah moms and dads struggle with the tradition of candle lighting.  They worry about offending or excluding family and friends, their kids spend hours writing rhyming poems instead of studying their Haftorah portions and song selections become a family debate.  All the while, the underlying question remains – how can a Bar Mitzvah candle lighting ceremony be unique, memorable and “cool”, all at the same time? By adding mitzvot to a candle lighting ceremony using these creative ideas, your family is sure to add an extra special touch to your celebration.  (adapted from In Any Event Blog) 1.  CUP OF LIFE – Created by Rabbi Anchelle Perl. Fill […]